Effective 5 August 2026 · DateMap (datemap.sg), operated by Hu Yanshan, Singapore.
When you sign in with Apple: a stable account identifier and, if you choose to share it, your email address. A nickname you set yourself. The content you and your partner create: saved places, notes, check-ins (ratings, comments, dates) and photos. If you use nearby or "eat what" features, your location is used on-device and, for distance filtering, sent with that single request — it is never stored. Standard server logs (IP, timestamp) are kept briefly for security and debugging.
我们收集：Apple 登录的账号标识（及你选择共享的邮箱）、你设置的昵称、你与伴侣创建的内容（收藏地点、备注、打卡与照片）。「附近」与「今天吃什么」的定位仅在设备上及单次请求中使用，不会被存储。
Solely to run DateMap: keeping your shared list in sync between the two of you. We do not sell data, run ads, or share your data with anyone except the infrastructure we run on (Amazon Web Services, Singapore region).
数据仅用于运行 DateMap 本身，不出售、无广告、不与第三方共享（基础设施为 AWS 新加坡区域）。
Everything in a shared space — places, notes, check-ins, photos — is visible to both members of that space. That is the product.
共享空间内的一切内容对双方可见——这正是产品本身。
You can export all of your space's data (Settings → Export) at any time while the space exists. Deleting your account (Settings → Delete account) dissolves the shared space: places, check-ins and photos are permanently deleted for both members, including from photo storage. There is no export after dissolution.
空间存续期间可随时导出全部数据；删除账号将解散共享空间，双方的地点、打卡与照片（含存储桶中的文件）一并永久删除，解散后不可导出。
Data is kept while your account exists and deleted on account deletion as described above. Transport is HTTPS; session tokens are stored hashed; photos live in a private bucket accessible only through short-lived signed links.
Data protection contact: ryan@betterlife.live. We may update this policy; material changes will be noted in the app.